Module 5: Respectful Dialogue & Structure of a Conversation
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5.1 Shifting Perspectives

The first four modules focused on knowledge you will find useful in implementing a conversations approach. Module 5 provides the "how to" of this approach.

Self Reflection Activity

One of the most crucial aspects of shifting to a Conversations Approach is shifting our attitudes about our roles and perspectives.  The first step in moving to using a conversations approach is taking some time for self-reflection. So before moving to a conversations approach, consider some of the following questions and issues as they apply to you and your attitudes and perspectives. You may already have a mindset that embraces the attitudes and perspectives that align with a conversations approach. Then these modules and the suggested knowledge and skills provided can enrich the way you address breastfeeding and safe sleep. It is always good, however, to check in on our own perspectives.

Before moving to the Conversations Approach, consider some of the following questions and issues as they apply to you and your attitudes and perspectives.

Rate your agreement with the following statements about families who do not implement recommendations about breastfeeding or safe sleep.  Your answers are not recorded. Don’t shy away from looking at yourself. What you discover will help you see where you stand on your tolerance for family reluctance and ambivalence about the recommendations and for giving them space to reach their own conclusions. 

If you aren’t aware of where you are starting in the process, these kinds of feelings and ideas can trip you up as you try to shift to a Conversations Approach.  However you think or feel is fine, but understanding yourself helps you know what shifts you may need to make in your perspectives.

When families do not embrace or plan to implement the recommendations (rate your agreement with the following statements):

They just don’t understand the reasons for the recommendations and the risks they are taking.

Completely Disagree Somewhat Disagree Somewhat Agree Completely Agree

I feel angry and alarmed.

Completely Disagree Somewhat Disagree Somewhat Agree Completely Agree

They really don’t care about their children.

Completely Disagree Somewhat Disagree Somewhat Agree Completely Agree

They are making the best decisions for them and their families given the context of their lives.

Completely Disagree Somewhat Disagree Somewhat Agree Completely Agree

I feel that I have wasted my time talking to them.

Completely Disagree Somewhat Disagree Somewhat Agree Completely Agree

Others will think I am not doing my job well.

Completely Disagree Somewhat Disagree Somewhat Agree Completely Agree

I feel disrespected as an expert.

Completely Disagree Somewhat Disagree Somewhat Agree Completely Agree

I hope I or someone will have more opportunities to talk with the family.

Completely Disagree Somewhat Disagree Somewhat Agree Completely Agree

Unless they follow all of the recommendations, I have failed.

Completely Disagree Somewhat Disagree Somewhat Agree Completely Agree

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